| Lessons From Vietnam by Jenise Holloway |
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| FAST FACTS: Age at time of travel: 24yr old female Companions: a 25yr old Caucasion Female and a 24yr old Caucasion male Occupation: English teachers residing in Japan Purpose: Leisure Cities visited/Length of stay: Ho Chi Minh(Saigon)-5 days, Hanoi (including Halong Bay)- 9 days Sapa (mountains) - 4 days Hue (coastal) - 4 days, Danang - 1day Travel Dates: Dec 23-Jan 5, 2001 |
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| In general, as a young American I was not greeted with the animosity I anticipated. Most of the people we met saw meeting us as an opportunity. We were people to be educated about the actual events of the War. The general expectation held was a belief in our ignorance about the events that took place thirty years ago. The people of the younger generation all know someone who was affect by the war, and now those same people had the language and opportunity to tell those stories to others. People from the older generation in Vietnam are French speakers, but those 30 and under speak English. A traveler to Vietnam should expect to find a beautiful, tenacious, and clever people. |
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| The reaction to us of many Vietnamese in the cities visited (keep in mind most are situated along a heavy tourist track) encompasses two extremes. The primary reactions were eagerness to please or anger depending on whether or not we were willing to relinquishing our almighty American dollar! In any travel adventure a tourist will meet the best and worst of people. Place value in all experiences and learn from them, but be careful to prevent yourself from making sweeping generalizations. Be prepared to have your mind opened and your heart moved by the character of the people. Also be prepared for some gruesome evidence of past historical events such as common encounters with the deformation of people and children from that tragic era. With regard to travel plans, expect to do organized tours unless you know the language. Tourism is tightly controlled by the government; therefore, comparative shopping is a waste of time. The only other way around this problem is to know someone who lives in country. Also arranging to have a driver can often lead to adventures off the beaten path as well. In Vietnam, higher prices and a faster pace of life are more characteristic of the southern cities than their northern counterparts. For the tourist, haggling and being accosted by vendors is a constant occurance. No matter where you are, in the train, on the street, in a bar you are of course a TOURI$T. If asked, NEVER admit to being American. The vendors will immediately see green. Do not stop to talk, rest, or think on an open street. Even just halting while walking on the street is viewed as an open invitation for vendors to swarm around you. Try to keep moving and act like you know your destination or stop to check out your map in an enclosed area. Above all don’t panic when surrounded by vendors physically and aggressively tugging on you to sell you their wares. The people are just very “touchy” even with individuals with whom they lack familiarity. Obviously if you have problems with loss of personal space, maybe Vietnam is not the type of country you would like to visit. One other very important note: Like in most major tourist locations, there is always the constant threat of pick pocketing. In the event that you find yourself in a confrontation, try to avoid letting the situation escalate into a serious problem. Travelers to communist countries should remember that often the policing system is very corrupt. Simply announcing your American passport can actually lead to more trouble. In general it’s best to avoid conflict at all costs, since involving police officials may not lead to a more favorable outcome. |
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| In my experiences the people gravitated more toward the familiarity of my brown skin than that of my Caucasion counterparts who I happened to be traveling with. Unfortunately, this familiarity even with skin color led to more incidences of attempting to intimidate me as well. Generally the size of American males makes them less of a target for this type of physical intimidation, but for women that is usually not the case- regardless of size. The biggest hurdle for me, as a woman, was feeling a loss of empowerment. Without a home government influence, a |
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| higher authority to insure safety, and my inability to speak the language, this feeling of insecurity was well warranted. |
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| Hotels, Food, and Shopping |
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| Pay for a nice hotel. The equivalent of fifteen dollars gets you practically 5 star accomodations. You may never be able to do that in the US! More importantly, your money buys you safety, Air Conditioning, a friendly atmosphere, and someone else to combat the leacherous vendors as you stand at the door. Budget accomodations generally run from $6-$9 but are often very unsafe. Sometimes these lower budget accomodations don’t even have locks on the doors! |
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| When dining in your hotel or elsewhere, be careful about the meat products you choose to digest. Meat and other perishable food products are not cared for in the same sanitary conditions that we are used to in the US. Kitchens can be open and preparation can be in close proximity to bathrooms. All of which creates bacteria that the average American digestive system will have trouble combating. Shrimp should also be placed on the “no-no” list. The shellfish there does not always come from the cleanest of waters. On the other hand, feel free to indulge in cooked veggies and the sweetest fruits you could ever imagine. Cabbage and bananas are staples here for any or all meals during the day. |
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| The Language A general rule of thumb is expect older generations to speak French and the thirty-somethings and under to speak English. Vendors catering to tourists, however, speak multiple languages including Japanese. Remember vendors also display the mannerisms reflective of the culture of that language. For example, the harsh rigid haggling using English will lead to negotiation. The soft- spoken Japanese language yields polite refusal to budge on price. Bottom line, if you want a lower price -use English. |
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| Getting Around Flight travel to all the destination cities I visited was less than $200 total. For local travel around cities and villages, you can always hop into a rickshaw and cross your fingers. You can see your life flash before your eyes at a cost of less than a $1! Being a Black American Traveler Sometimes it’s the small things that really stand out. With regard to the squat toilets, expect your hips not to be as narrow and to have to do some serious repositioning. |
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| The bathroom situation is not the only one that will bring attention to the differences between your body and those of the Vietnamese. My experiences also revealed a fascination from males of this country (Asian countries in general) with chest size. Groping incidents were most likely to result in a physical altercation. The most outstanding example of being African-American in this country was in the treatment with regard to males. I was more likely to be approached, harassed, or physically intimidated than my female or male Caucasion counterparts. I guess that since my brown skin was so close to theirs, it evoked a familiarity with how the Vietnamese deal with each |
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| other and how they promote subservient women in their culture. This sense of familiarity may also have been reflected in the apparent "appreciation" or "sense of authority" conveyed through very overt sexual advances from some of the men. Despite some of these negative impressions, the majority of the experiences I had were quite comical, very thought-provoking, and certainly invaluable. A visit to Vietnam is definitely worthwhile. At least now you can consider yourself much more educated than I was before my trip! |
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